DIY nursing top, or how to make a low tank modest

Would you believe that this is a nursing shirt?

Here's another one

Well, it is! And I made three just like it. I’m in major nesting mode and I need to prepare for the new baby. So I spent the morning making these nursing tops instead of cleaning or boxing, oh, I’m moving in a week. I really should have been boxing stuff up. Pshhh… whatev.  I got rid of a bunch of clothes and found a way to make these old shirts work. I’ve worn each of them only a handful of times because they all turned out to be too low and layering them with other tanks never seemed to work. So here’s my DIY nursing top, or if your tanks tend to creep down, a way to make them more modest.

I started out with four tops.

DIY nursing tank top tutorial

I chose to use the white one as a base for all the other tops. I cut off the straps and then cut along the seams so I had two panels, I cute those panels in half and used three of them for the three shirts.

DIY Nursing tops

snip off the straps


DIY nursing top

Imagine each of these two panels cut in half


I turned the uncut shirts inside out and laid the panels on top.

DIY nursing top


I added lace to the panels on a couple of them. Then I pinned the panels and sewed them onto the shirts.

DIY nursing top

I sewed four lines on each tank top. Two little ones on the straps and then two long ones along the side seams. For the pink shirt I just found the seams and sewed all along. Be careful to only sew on seams so it doesn’t show through.

DIY Nursing top

DIY nursing top

DIY nursing top

When you are done sewing just turn the top right side out and put it on. You are ready to nurse discreetly! Just pull the inner panel up and push the outside tank or shirt down. Let me show you a picture so you see what I mean.

DIY nursing top

A normal layered top? You would think so!

DIY nursing top

wa-Bam! To actually nurse pull the bottom down as well and it leaves this tiny little opening for baby to eat without anyone realizing what’s going on.

Here's another one

Here’s another one

DIY nursing top

See how it works? It’s so sneaky!

This is my least favorite one but it still worked out OK.  I wish I would have attached the undershirt a bit lower.

This is my least favorite one but it still worked out OK. I wish I would have attached the undershirt a bit lower.

It still works, and it's a loose shirt I can wear easily as soon as baby is born.

It still works, and it’s a loose shirt I can wear easily as soon as baby is born.


It’s a simple project, but I would suggest a stretch needle and a gathering foot to make it go smoothly. Good luck and happy sewing! P.S. I am so not a seamstress so if I explained anything the wrong way please help each other out in the comments. :)

DIY nursing shawl

A lot has happened in my life in the last little while, you probably don’t want to hear about it, but in summary, we moved back to Utah, sold our home, and we’re over halfway through pregnancy with baby number three! Surprise! In prep for new baby I made a new nursing cover, I can’t find the one I used for little jaguar so I found the old tutorial and started over.

so, the original tutorial is here:

and I love the idea but it’s a really confusing tutorial, no offense meant I’ve made a few of those myself, but I was shocked to find that I had the same issues making it as I did the last time I made it. After all, it’s been two years and countless sewing projects later. Last time I made it I had zero expertise on a sewing machine. Seriously, this was like my first project, so I assumed my problems were just that, my problems, this time I wasn’t so sure. After a quick internet search I found I’m not alone in my confusion and I don’t need to fret because someone much smarter than me figured out what was going on and made a clear version of the original tut. Thank you!

follow these instructions for a pain free super easy project:

DIY nursing shawl

Here I am pretending to nurse, this is silly but I got all excited just holding something the way you do when you nurse a baby. Aw… I love babies!


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Congratulations! It’s a… pillow pet!

DIY nursing cover, nursing shawl, modern nursing cover, knit nursing cover, cute nursing cover

Bathroom Selfie!


Family Home Evening Idea – The Honey Bee and the Yellow Jacket – a lesson on honesty

I found a similar picture online and made my own version by hand :)

I found a similar picture online and made my own version by hand :)

Hubby and I have been talking a lot lately about how to teach our children values. One of the things we’ve been doing is tying our parenting back to a series of family rules we came up with together. So far, it’s made our parenting more consistent and it has helped us give solid answers to the constant whys coming from Little lion. This family home evening was our first in a series to tie back into our family rules. The rule? We are honest.

Opening prayer

Opening Song: Choose the right

Scripture: Philip 4:8

Attention Getter: Show two pictures, one of a honey bee and one of a yellow jacket. These can be pictures you found online or pictures you drew yourself. Then explain the basic differences between the two bugs. A honey bee is fat and fuzzy and he spends his day gathering nectar and pollinating the plants, then he goes home to build his house and make honey. He works hard for what he has and he is honest in his nature. He doesn’t like to fight but will to protect his hive. If he stings someone he is sacrificing his life.  The yellow jacket looks a lot like the bee but he is thin and smooth. He is carnivorous and will often pretend to be a bee so he can sneak into the hive and steal the bee’s honey. He will sting readily because stinging someone or something poses no risk to him.

honey bee vs yellow jacket family home evening

Make a chart. Write honey bee on one side of a paper and write yellow jacket on the other. Compare and contrast the two bugs behavior based on the value honesty. Talk about how you would rather be a honey bee than a yellow jacket.

Activity: On a beehive you either sketched or printed out make yellow thumb prints with your family. When they are dry sketch honey bees on them. You now have a nice visual reminder of your lesson.

Say your closing prayer and have a nice honey related treat. I suggest Navajo tacos, or fry bread as those outside of Utah call them, with honey on top.

Happy Home Evening and God bless

the honey bee and the yellow jacket FHE

The Savior Taught us to Love – Free printable

the savior taught us to love - Elder Neil L Andersen

Ah general conference. The time when we can assemble together (whether physically or technologically) and renew our faith. I love it! Here’s one of my favorite quotes so far. It’s from Elder Andersen’s talk: “The Savior taught us to love not only our friends but also those who disagree with us.”

I pray that I can remember this next time I find myself feeling defensive or angry. I think the more we act out of love the more we can open the doors of understanding and combat the closing doors of ignorance or hate.

God bless, and please feel free to use this printable for noncommercial use.

Christ-centered Easter traditions

10 Christ centered Easter traditionsWe love bunnies at my house. We have nothing against bunnies, eggs, candy, and brightly colored wicker baskets, but we also love Christ. We know that because he died we can live. We know that he is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). Therefore, when we celebrate Easter at our house we want to make sure our kids know that while bunnies are fun, Easter is about Christ.

We try to fill the season with Christ-centered traditions and since our family is still young our traditions are still evolving. The following is a list of Christ centered Easter traditions I found while researching new traditions for my family. I hope it can help you and your family the same way it helped mine! This list is particularly good for young families, but could easily be adapted for different ages :)

1. Easter Wreath: We came up with this on our own last year and we still love it. Obtain a plain stick wreath that is about the circumference of a man’s head. Tell the story of Christ’s death and liken the wreath to the crown of thorns. Talk about how Christ died and was reborn after three days in the tomb, then hot glue spring flowers to the wreath, likening them to rebirth and resurrection. Give everyone a turn to glue a flower on and express gratitude for Christ’s life and death.

2. Resurrection Rolls: A delicious (and non-scary) way to teach about the resurrection. You take canned biscuits, wrap them around marshmallows, dip them in butter and cinnamon and then bake according to the biscuit instructions. When they come out of the oven the marshmallow has melted away into the biscuit dough. Make them with your kids explaining to them that the biscuits represent the tomb, the marshmallow represents Christ, and the butter and oil represent the embalming oils and spices that were rubbed into Christs body. Talk about how after three days Christ rose again, leaving the tomb empty just like your “empty” biscuit.

3. Kite Flying: On the Island of Bermuda it’s traditional to fly kites on Good Friday in remembrance that Christ is risen. Bermuda doesn’t have a monopoly on kites you know! Make and decorate kites and then go kite flying. We plan on doing this one for our Easter family home evening, complete with an educational discussion about the symbolism behind the activity.

4. Spring flowers are often associated with Easter. One fun Easter tradition is to give Easter flowers to grandparents or the elderly. I love the idea of using Easter as a time to serve others. I think it’s exactly what Christ wants us to do to celebrate him.

5. Resurrection Eggs: send the kids on an Easter egg hunt, but instead of candy the eggs hold symbols of the story of Christmas. Click the link for more details.

6. He took our sins upon Him carnation experiment: The week before Easter put a white carnation in water, then place 20 drops of red food coloring in the water. Over the next week watch as the carnation turns red. Compare the carnation taking the red food coloring to Christ taking our sins. This is a good visual explanation of the atonement.

7. Read the Easter story in the bible: self-explanatory :)

8. Easter Music: Take time to sing everyone’s favorite Easter songs. Follow the link for some music ideas.

9. Watch an Easter movie, this links to the ones on the you tube Mormon Channel, all wonderful, take your pick :)

10. Dip Easter eggs in glow in the dark paint and then do an Easter egg hunt in the dark. Talk about how Christ is the light of the world and think of ways to “search” for him in the darkness. Read John 8:12.

Man, I can’t wait to get started! What about you? Do you have any Christ centered Easter traditions? Please share, I can’t wait to read about them :)


Tiana’s “man catching” beignets recipe

man catching chocolate filled beignets recipe

It’s movie night! Going out is so overrated, especially when you can stay in with these delicious chocolate filled doughnuts. Can you guess which movie we’re watching? That’s right.  It’s Disney’s The Princess and The Frog.  Tiana’s “man-catching beignets” can catch more than just a man. Serve these for movie night with friends, kids, significant others, pretty much everyone can be caught with chocolate, right?

This recipe makes enough to feed a large crowd. If you don’t have a crowd on hand you can either freeze half of the dough, or eat twice as much as the recommended serving size, or three times as much. We’re won’t judge.

Here’s the recipe:

Time investment: 30 min prep time, 1 hour rest time, 30 minutes cook time, 2 hours total


1/2 cup water – luke warm

1 T yeast

1/4 cup shortening

1/2 cup sugar

1 tsp. salt

1 cup boiling water

1 cup whole milk

1/4 cup powdered milk

2 eggs, beaten

7 1/2 cups flour

6 oz chocolate chips

1 quart vegetable oil

1/2 cup powdered sugar


1. Combine yeast, lukewarm water and salt, let it sit for 5 minutes

2. In a large bowl combine shortening, boiling water and sugar, stir well, then add yeast mixture, milk, powdered milk and eggs, slowly stir in flour. Work the dough until the flour is well incorporated . Refrigerate dough, covered, for at least 1 hour.

3. Heat oil in saucepan or electric fryer.

4. Roll out dough to 1/4 inch thickness. This will need to be done in batches, take out about a baseball sized lump of dough at a time.

5. Cut dough into rectangles of desired size – how big do you want your doughnuts? We did ours about 2″ by 1″. Place 3 or 4 chocolate chips in the center of each rectangle.

beignet recipe

6. Fold the dough over on itself and seal shut. Some techniques to help you get it sealed tight: use water on the edge, roll the edge over on itself, and seal with a fork like you would decorate a pie crust.

beignet recipe

7. Test the oil, if a small ball of dough sizzles and rises to the top of the oil quickly it is hot enough. Use a slotted spoon to gently drop beignets in the oil. They should flip themselves over as they cook. Cook for 2-4 minutes or until golden brown and pull them out.

8. Dust with powdered sugar, we used a slotted spoon for this step, and serve warm

powdered beignets


stuffed beignet recipe

They were just so pretty too! I have way too many pictures like this one on my hard drive. It’s making me hungry :)

pretty flowers and beignets

March 2014 Visiting Teaching Message printable

visiting teaching message March 2014 free printable

Free for personal noncommercial use, this is a free printable with a quote taken from the March 2014 visiting teaching message. I love this message. I have met many many beautiful “lights” in my life and I love the idea of being a light to others as well. Isn’t it neat that we have that in us? We have the ability to influence others in such a way that we can be a reflection of Christ’s light. It makes me so excited to keep working to be like Christ. I hope that everyone has great visiting teaching experiences this month :) God bless!

– Amber Mae

DIY Grandparent Gift/ Craft – grandkids photo display

DIY grandparent gift

It’s not like we live across the world from each other, we’re only a state apart, but we don’t get to see each other more than a few times a year so I often find myself missing our families. I especially miss seeing everyone with my babies. We try hard to stay connected. We call each other, Skype, and send the kid’s artwork in the mail, but every so often it feels like we need to do more. We were feeling exactly this way as we prepared for Valentine’s, after a search on Pinterest we decided to make these grand-babies photo displays to send to the grandparents. I sent them in the mail with more pictures than could reasonably fit on the display and somehow I feel less homesick when I think about everyone looking at the pictures we send. I love to imagine these displays at the grandparents homes, connecting us in spirit even though we can’t be there physically.

Here’s the tutorial on how I made them.

Supplies: 1 wooden board, stain, acrylic paint, sandpaper, two hooks, a length of yarn, hardware for hanging, pictures

Estimated Cost: Without pics less than $5 With pics: depends on the size you print could be anywhere from $10 – $20

1. First I sanded down a piece of reclaimed wood.

2. Then I stained it, waited for it to dry and painted over the stain with some watered down acrylic, after that dried I sanded again to give it a distressed vintage feel.

DIY grandparent gift

3. I messed around until I found a font I liked and painted on grand-babiesDIY grandparent gift

4. Next I screwed a hook into the bottom corners of the boards, making sure to keep them on the same plane as each other.

5. I then stretched some yarn across the hooks, tying it tight. You could use just about anything for this: yarn, string, twine, fishing line, etc.

6. I took 13 Clothespins and hung them on the line, just to try it out, then put them in an envelope for the mail.

7. I printed out some pictures and put them in an envelope to be sent with the rest of the gift. DIY grandparent gift

8. Finally, I mailed them with some push-pin wall hangers in a separate envelope so the grandparents could place them however they wanted to.

DIY grandparent gift


I got my “Pin”spiration: here here and here

Happy crafting!

My Expectations vs. Heavenly Father’s

best parent you can be quote from Jeffrey R Holland

This is a photo I snapped when our oldest was sick and refusing to sleep.

I had an overwhelming week… well, if I’m honest it was an overwhelming couple of weeks. I’m always really prideful and I hate to admit it when it gets hard but I’m admitting it right now. Sometimes it’s hard.

I have all of these expectations for myself as a mother. I’m supposed to keep my house perfectly clean, feed my family three nutritious meals a day plus healthy snacks, teach my children important life and educational skills, be a good wife to my husband, and never ever lose my temper because studies show that if you yell you will damage your kiddos for life, they will be hashing out your faults on some therapists couch for years to come!

On top of that I ran across some stupid crap online where a bunch of working mothers bashed stay-at-home mommies who aren’t really working you know. It was like someone was putting rocks in my pockets…. guilt… expectations… accusations… I was ready to explode. I did explode, well more like I melted. I’m one of those people who is more likely to have a crying fit than a screaming one.

It all climaxed on Valentine’s day. I was wrangling my babies, feeding them some not exciting or overly nutritious cereal, and thinking about last years Valentine’s french toast. As I recall it was heart-shaped and topped with strawberries and Nutella. Hubby came home to me crying and feeling SO inadequate. He didn’t judge. He didn’t scold. And thankfully he didn’t laugh. He just told me it was OK, told me that the things I was worrying about didn’t really matter, and that I was doing a good job. He then took the kids and entertained them so I could have a break.

Not long after this I was listening to a podcast called Keeping Your Sanity in a Home of Little Ones. I missed half of the podcast because I was simultaneously cleaning the kitchen and entertaining a toddler, but I got snippets here and there and the basic feeling that the things I’ve been stressing so much over don’t matter, as long as I’m doing my best and relying on my Heavenly Father when things get tough.

What drove it all home was this quote from Elder Jeffrey R Holland who said, “If you try your best to be the best parent you can be, you will have done all that a human being can do and all that God expects you to do.” Wow, so are my expectations of myself really in line with my Heavenly Father’s expectations of me? It’s worth thinking about because it’s the kind of question that gives comfort but doesn’t just give you a pass, “Oh your child is running naked down the street while you text your BFF from high school? It’s OK you’re doing your best.” No, it’s more like, “Yeah, I’m feeding my kid cereal, but I’m also talking to her and playing with her and you know what, even though the kids screamed through it we still prayed on that cereal complete with the plea that those Lucky Charms give us the health and strength we need!”

I’m sure this won’t be the last time I will get overwhelmed with life, but I hope I’ll remember this quote and take solace that as long as I’m doing my best I’m not letting anyone down. In fact, as long as I’m doing my best it doesn’t matter if someone else disapproves because my Heavenly Father doesn’t. He’s proud of me and right there cheering me on Lucky Charms and all.

DIY Hot Chocolate Bar by Mindy

Today we’ve got a guest post from Mindy, the awesome founder of Tangled Up With String, a new blog craft blog that I’m sure ya’ll would like.

My “Hot Chocolate Bar”

Hey Everyone!

I am so excited to be guest posting here at Amber May Be… ! I love Amber and everything that she shares with us.

I am from a cute little blog called Tangled Up With String. There are five of us creative ladies working together to share our ideas with others and develop more talents ourselves. We are having so much fun and would love for you to follow us!

Today, I decided to share my cute little Cocoa Bar with you! I love having hot cocoa out for guests when they come over. And I always keep my tea pot ready to go on my stove.

DIY Hot Chocolate Bar 

1. I make a chalkboard printable to fit this time of year! I thought that it would be so fun to have it be a heart theme for Valentine’s Day. You can get the free printable HERE  in two different sizes!

2. I picked up a simple silver frame from our local dollar store.

3. These little silver trays were also from the dollar store. I wanted something to make it look more streamlined and connected.

4. A couple of years ago, I scored this apothecary jar from a second hand store in town. Oh ya! I keep our hot chocolate in it.

5. These are some of the mugs that we have (I really like white dinnerware. It is clean AND I can change the colors in my kitchen without wanting to buy new dishes…… yes, I already made that mistake!)

6. These little jars are actually old salsa jars from the store. After we used the salsa, I put them through the dishwasher three times. Yes, three times! The first two times didn’t get the salsa smell out. After the third time, I let them sit (with the lids on) for three days with some newspaper inside of them. I had heard that trick worked for Tupperware, so I tried it with these. Yep! It worked! After spray painting the lids sliver, everything matched perfectly! I added some mini marshmallows and creamer to sweeten up the cocoa.